Happy 2021 to you! As you gaze into the future of this year, what do you see? We’ve all heard the popular saying “Seeing is believing,” and I want to share a simple manifesting secret with you today: It’s actually the other way around! In the limitless world of manifestation, you must BELIEVE (first!) in order to SEE…
[LBD Video #37] Why Secondary Gain Leads to Secondary Pain
Most people who struggle with self-sabotage are well aware of what they must do in order to get the results they want. But there’s a part of themselves that keeps getting in the way… Watch Life By Design Video #37 for helpful insights on how to win that inner tug-o-war and start creating real transformation in your…
Are you still undercover?
The other day, one of my clients asked, “Why can’t I seem to finish anything? I have all these great ideas but nothing to show for them.” This is a sneaky sort of self-sabotage that disguises itself as busy-ness, still deciding, or making it “just right.” They all seem like the usual blocks to completion. The trouble…
Old Flames, Boundaries & Blessings
Have you ever hopped on Facebook only to be surprised with a message from an old flame? I recently had this experience, and it was a clear reminder of how profoundly my life has progressed… When I knew this particular person nearly 15 years ago, I was fragile, insecure, and lost. And so was he. This was…
In Praise of Shadows, Part 2
Does your shadow side come out when you least expect it? It’s not always those times when we’re exhausted or stressed out. Sometimes it creeps up when you think all is well with the world — like when you’re inspired, and you’ve finally decided to move forward on your idea, that goal, or that relationship. Then out…